All stress is not created equal. Her's could be considered eustress or positive stress. Where as yours may be the more bothersome. While they are both stress hers is that which comes from moving towards a goal, it's her choice to undergo this stress. Where as yours was thrust upon you. Lack of sex drive can certainly be one of the many symptoms of stress or even depression.

Maybe as your job search bears fruit you will begin to experience less negative stress albeit you will probably gain some positive. I would suggest you do things that make you feel sexy. Make the effort. You could ask your wife to try something new that you have always wanted to do. Why does the sex seem unfulfilling? Are you having erections through out the day? Do you wake up with one? Maybe try having sex at a different time? If you are experiencing not only a mental lack of desire but a physical one as well it may be time to consult a physician.

What about reading some erotica here, find one you like then ask your wife to read itout loud while you go down on her.... or vice versa

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