Well my bf.. well I'm still twitterpated and um he is very far away, so I don't have any complaints!!

But this guy in my study group was telling us once that his wife has a very good method for getting him to do his part of the housework.. He says as far as he can tell, she isn't manipulating, it's just the way she is..

She told him once she feels more "romantic" when the house is clean, so he'll do the dishes or clean the bathroom and show her and he definitely gets paid well for it... So over the years they've built this system where he helps out cuz he gets consistently rewarded .. hehe

(I can understand that too, even alone I prefer my bedroom to be clean so I can relax and then it's more fun to play than when it's messy like it is now!!)