Lou, when you are in that position you described, how long do you usually have to stimulate your clit when you use just your hand, not a vibrator, to come? Eric, how long (same situation I just asked Lou) does it take YOUR SO to come? I am wondering if it would still work (the guy being able to either not come before the woman does or not get soft waiting for her to come) if it takes her 10 to 25 min to come?

I'm in the same situation as you, Lou; I can have G-spot orgasms easily during intercourse,and I DO like those, but blended orgasms (vagina and clit or ass and clit) are definitely my favorites. I can come usually in about 5 minutes if I'm using a vibrator on my clit, but by hand it takes a heck of a lot longer. And my SO doesn't want me to use a vibrator. Plus, I know it would take me a long time for a while because I will be very self-conscious about what I am doing.

BTW, Sexkitten, I don't mean to steal your thread. I DO agree with Lou that if there is some way for you to use a vibrator on your clit while you're having intercourse, you will probably have success orgasming pretty fast. It seems many couples have luck with that using eggs, especially the pulsating eggs, the item Lou showed in her photo above, a Hitachi wand if you can fit the thing in between you, or really any vibrator you come easily with.

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