Ok, I'm gonna weigh in. If you think it's kinky and you enjoy that, what is the harm folks? If you find it to be commonplace, that's Ok too, right?

I dated an African American lady who would only date white guys. I didn't see the harm and didn't consider her to be biased, just preferential. It goes many different ways and most are just fine.

Live and let live.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours