I can relate to what you are saying, I do the same thing. Only difference in my case, nothing really mattered much to the person I used to be with and it took me some time finally to realize that I was the only one who cared and i was wasting my time trying. It sucks when you find out you are the only one in the relationship who cares. If you and your husband really love each other then sit and talk about why you sometimes have feelings like that, I am sure he will reaasure you that you have no need to be jealous of others. Sometimes all it takes is a nice talk to put things into perspective. Only when you are with someone who could careless then it is really a problem if you allow it to be. Good luck!!!
