Hi Lixy, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother - I can't imagine how it must be to lose a sibling, especially in the circumstances you have described.
I know that on the 26th, all the right words will come to you, and just remember, at that very special time, there is so much love showering down on you from your pixie family all around the globe, you will find the strength and support to get you through this.
I think your tribute to your brother is a wonderful idea - and be sure to know, he will be smiling down thinking exactly the same thing. My thoughts and prayers will be with you Lixy, and big hugs hun.