I can honestly say I've performed oral on a partner and let my own desires wait. I don't know of a bigger turn on than having a woman doing the quiver dance on the end of my tongue (especially those with the deep sigh and Oh Shit! afterward) Nothing more need be said at that point. I can remember crawling upside my honey wrapping my arms around her and watching her drift off to sleep. With busy schedules to hinder us I can remember performing oral on a gf while she was on the phone (I was supposed to be dressing to go to a party) Funny how the conversation changed. LOL I was promptly told to get my ass ready pronto! (after her groaning orgasm) I could hear her best friend on the phone saying "damn girl, you couldn't make him wait for that?"

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

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