As long as you both gain satisfaction by it and have no guilt then why stop a good thing. If these experiences ever begin to encroach on your marriage then it’s time to call it quits. Don’t let anything drive the two of you apart.

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Mind what poeple do not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Terry Goodkind, Wizzards Fifth Rule

There are two things a real man likes--danger and play;and he likes woman because she is the most dangerous of playthings.
Nietzsche


Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony