It made my day to read everyone's posts so far. My smile is a little bigger and my step a little lighter. As a white woman married to a black man for many yrs, being the mother of 2 beautiful biracial kids, and presently being engaged to a man who just happens to be black/Puerto Rican, I have never seen what the big deal is. To me it's no different than noticing a white couple in which one person may have black hair and the other blonde. After all these years, the whole notion of interracial sex and relationships being sensational (not to mention "kinky"?!) gets to be a little old.

I totally agree with Old Fart: "Sex just because someone is a particular race is kinky. Sex with someone who happens to be from a different race is not."