yes Steph, all women are different and what works for some may not work for others....i have often found that if the build up (read foreplay and oral) is longer and more gentle the more intense the orgasm (either lots of little ones or the BIG 'O').....but it takes time to get to know each other....and the best advice i can give is practise, practise an more practise and don't be afraid to tell him what you like. :0P

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