My wife has the hardest time believing that I prefer she not shower prior to oral sex. I like the musk so much more than the perfume.

luc328 hit the nail on the head with "If a guy goes down, it's because he loves it, not because he has too"

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.