My wife, when we were married, did not like to travel much. My other serious relationship used to freak out when I would tell her what happened, or what I had seen (Once I had Albanian police threaten to take our car and throw our bodies off the mountain edge.)

I guess that I have just been frustrated trying to find someone. Well, anyone. I have never had this much bad luck. Maybe I ask for too much. I mean, what I am looking for is someone who would like to experience life. Someone who is extremely passionate and want to try things with me in bed, not someone who sits by saying "Well, not with you.", or "Well, I have already tried that."

Maybe I am off my rocker, but I believe that, as a couple, you should try and do everything you are both comfortable with together. If you are both comfortable with trying anal sex, try it. If you are both comfortable with having sex in a public place, do it.