i think after you've been with a person for awhile the right music can make all the difference. certainly whispered words and no music is perfect at the right time but i don't know... sometimes i think that a song would be perfect, playing softly in the background. certainly if it came on again later when you were together it might put both of you in the mood again.

what songs would i chose? depends, something like garbage or veruka salt might be nice at one time but at another.. surely the classics kick the most ass. basically anything that gets you or your lover feeling sexy...

sex isn't just the penetration part either, it's also the foreplay and theres some GREAT foreplay songs out there! i can think of about 30 different songs i would strip to. plus if you're having sex in an appartment with roommates a nice stereo system can make all the difference.

also, sometimes i'll notice if a song i'm familure with is playing i'll sing along as i near orgasm, i've read about other people doing it but i'm not sure how common it is.

IAKaraokeGirl has the right idea, mix tapes! mmmm... nothing like hearing the song you just mad love to last night coming over the speakers as your honny slides over besides you and puts her hands on your body. it'll start the mood off right quick.

one more mans opinion.

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