Probably seeing that my spouse is enjoying what I am doing to her. Watching her getting excited and hearing her moaning sends me through the roof every time. Knowing that I am turning her on is what REALY turns me on.

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Mind what poeple do not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Terry Goodkind, Wizzards Fifth Rule

There are two things a real man likes--danger and play;and he likes woman because she is the most dangerous of playthings.
Nietzsche


Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony