true true, i remember cybersex (i've been sexually active with my gf for 2 years now and we're getting married in may ^_^) im just on the net like this because i write sex stories as a hobby (you wouldnt believe how much it turns my gf on when i read one to her) anyway its a fine way to stay a virgin, but it is a tough habit to break. I had been doin it for some time when i met my gf and i found that i had some major trouble stopping. When she found out she was pissed and called me a "perverted Bastard" it took 3 weeks and a lot of coaxing to get her to come back to me, but it was well worth it!