I agree with you Liz it's exactly the same thing. The bottom line is if I wanted to be with a women it would be between me and her only. Not a game to be played with a man involved. I believe when two people ingage in any sexual relationship that is a private matter and it should be done for all the right reasons. Number one being that there are feelings involved and it shouldn't be taken lightly regardless if it's man and women, women and women etc... He isn't giving me ultimatums at all and he would never leave me because I chose not to be part of this. It's s strong fantasy that he has that's it. If I chose to be with a women it would be a private matter between only us.

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