I love a man with strong arms, it doesn't matter if they think they're too small. A guy's eyes are what i look at first, if I don't like his eyes then I have no interest in him. Their butt and package don't matter to me until we start goofing around in bed. Then as long as it's thick, the length don't matter But like I said, as long as he's got strong arms and keeps me wrapped up in them, then I'm all for him ^.^