02-21-2003, 12:38 PM
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Pixie's Resident Reptile
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Join Date: Jul 2002
Location: Central MD, USA
Posts: 21,194
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Re: Threesome questions
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Originally posted by CherryChick248
In theory, I don't think I would mind it, but in reality I don't know how I would feel seeing him have sex with another girl.
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Guys: Does wanting a threesome mean your girl is not enough for you? And do you think you wouldn't be satisfied with just her from that point, or think differently about her?
I don't wanna rush into this...any help would be appreciated!
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First of all, talking about your relationship with your s/o...imagine that. Wow. Wish more people actually did that instead of just paying lip service to the idea. Cool that you're doing it.
My wife and I are poly...this nothing to do with the concept of "one girl/guy" is not enough for one person.
It has everything to do with the idea that just because you might love one person does not mean you can't love another, and a rejetion of the societally-induced idea that people "belong" to one another.
The occasional 3-somes (both mmf and ffm) we've had haven't really changed our relationship. But that's because we do communicate, and agree to certain ground rules before doing anything. IOW, we've never had a 3-some just for the sake of having a 3-some. *who* the other person involved was was important and was discussed beforehand. I highly recommend that.
It really is all about attitude and communication.
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