Well, I am new here and just read this thread and had to reply. My exposure to this site came from a wonderful man in my life who has allowed me to really begin to explore my sexuality. Most of my desires have been inhibited in past relationships for a variety of reasons. And boy is it refreshing to explore and not be judged. Anyhow, the subject of a 3sum has come up with us as well. Not really sure if it was me that brought it up or him.*S* I too haved very mixed feelings on this. If I was not in love I don't think I would hesitate in the least. If I was unattached and the opportunity arrose, then I could certainly see myself going for it. But love puts a whole new twist on things. Your question of will you be enough for him, is one I too have asked myself. Another is will I be jealous of the other woman. The main problem that I face is is it worth the risk of screwing up the relationship? In my case it is definitely not. So we have opted for not now, not until we are sure that it is something our relationship can handle. Here's an idea he had that I think sounds like great fun. Go out together and look for the girl. Just fantasizing about the possibilities together could be really hot....and as my man quoted "sometimes the hunt is better than the catch" Good luck with your decision.

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