02-17-2003, 06:10 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2002
Posts: 617
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Hiya!
I have to wonder who's to blame when folks have "bad sex"... What happened to "touch here", "kiss there", "a little to the left"? Truth, we don't really want to sound like the traffic control person, but why do we assume that our partner should automatically know what we want? If we don't talk to our partners then they'll never know what/how we like and we won't know what/how they like in return.
It can be done in subtle ways if one isn't comfortable saying it out loud, but that brings us back to: who's fault is it if we aren't fulfilled sexually by our partner? Or worse still? What if THEY are not pleased by US!!! 
Practice makes perfect! And if you're with a partner who isn't willing to listen, conform, try then you might just have to consider what you are doing with that person to begin with. Everything in a relationship is a two way street.
Okay, boys! Back that semi in here nice and slow! 
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