I agree with BIBI and Lilith.

I wouldn't have to ask that question. I'd know by the feel of the situation. But I have asked that question......and as soon as I blurted it out I wanted to take it back. It's always in that lull just after you say, "Well, that was fun. TY for a great evening!", (or any other adjective of an evening).

But, I have to say........if the question is posed and you do answer positively......you at least owe her a call to say that you are sorry but you don't think things would work out for you two. No other explaination would be necessary, but elaborate if you want with the reasons you don't think things would work out for you.

Geezzzzz guys.........there such a thing as manners! Momma taught you better than that!

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