My boyfriend (like, I would imagine, every guy ever) wants to have a threesome. I'm not against the idea, in fact messing around with another girl is something I've always wanted to do. But I'm kind of afraid of what it means for our relationship. In theory, I don't think I would mind it, but in reality I don't know how I would feel seeing him have sex with another girl. We are in a long distance relationship, and I'm afraid that if we have a threesome, I won't be able to trust him anymore, or it might make things weird around us.

Ladies: Did you ever have a threesome with your significant other? How did you approach it, and did it change your relationship?

Guys: Does wanting a threesome mean your girl is not enough for you? And do you think you wouldn't be satisfied with just her from that point, or think differently about her?

I don't wanna rush into this...any help would be appreciated!

Cherry