yeah posting pics does take some kind of courage dadaist, i know how you feel about posting on message boards- im a member of another site and have only gotten into message boards in the last couple of months( once upon a time i was a big fan of chatting) but for some reason have managed to somehow 'outgrow' chatting lol and have gotten a bug for posting on boards instead(ok not that much on this site lol but my old site lol) i guess it gives a 'whole new buzz'? and i have to say this is one of the best free sites out there- and as to the posting pics part- i guess thats up to my partner to enjoy real life images- but more power to those that feel free enough to put pics up- good on u guys