The first time I realized I was in love with a man .... I'd known him for nearly 10 years .... looked over at him putting on my frilly apron at a party at my place, at the same time he was telling a couple of people what to do ... acting like he owned the place and was in charge .... funny thing was, although I'd been to his place many times, this was only the 2nd time he'd been in mine ... no one else would have ever guess that from his behavior .... I looked over at him wearing that yellow gingham frilly apron and thought .... Oh my goodness I'm in love with him! and then I felt this warm glow spread through my body .... silly, I guess, but I'll never forget that moment .... I waited a long time for it ... I was 28 yrs old at the time.