Sometimes being nice or not isn't even in the picture. Let's face it, I don't know too much about you but let me share my experience. I am Mr. Average, nothing special about me. All the girls I've ever known didn't ever bother to think that maybe I needed a relationship here and there too. I guess the first time I heard, "All men are Pigs, oh but I don't mean you," or "Why can't more guys be like you," I knew my life of being O for a million had begun. So I took a new approach, instead of being shut down at every turn, I learned that being 0/0 is working better for me. There is a saying "Nothing ventured nothing lost." Granted it does become real lonely. But I think I have it figured out, the Girl that wants me, the girl that I am suppose to be with will come to me. This way, she will be the one and the only. I am 23, I am on my way to completing my education. I have to figure eventually there will be someone.

I know it's not as much as a solution as it is a ......well i don't know what it is.. But I truely feel that so far out of all the women that I have met, including the ones that I had a physical attraction to...None of them were the right ones for me. The one that falls for me, will like me because of my character.

I hope.

Steinfibers..:fly: