Sorry to see the pain in your words and I hope that you will feel better soon.

I have been through this in my life with someone and all I can say is that yes he did love you.....as much as he was able to! Some people just go through life inflicting pain by appearing cold and indifferent. It is easier for them to do this than have to face the pain they cause. They are usually selfish and emotionally stunted and can't deal with situations and so by virtue of not knowing how else to deal with life and the pain they inflict some people are able to bury their true feelings and go on like nothing has happened. They are usually empty inside and continually go through life seeking something while never realizing many times they have what they want. I know someone like this and he goes from relationship to relationship leaving a trail of people wondering what they have done to deserve such treatment. And you know what? They, like you have done nothing but love someone who is not worthy of their love! You are hurting now but at least your hurting means your normal.......he is dead inside!
Believe me.....you will only grow stronger from this! He will just go on!