
01-17-2003, 10:48 PM
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(((((((Missy)))))) I can feel the pain in your words...... There is nothing more hurtful than when someone just shuts off. Mostly because it seems to insinuate that you meant nothing. I have found this is not the case at all. Usually people who are capable of severing all ties, communication, etc. abruptly are in reality cowards or fear conflict. They find it easier to run and avoid that to face the consequences of being forced to deal with feeling both yours and theirs. It is usually a good indicator of how they would handle any big issue and so it may actually be a relief someday. You want someone who is willing to exhaust all avenues to have a successful relationship not someone who shuts down and becomes cold when there is trouble. I am sorry you are hurting.........love sux sometimes
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