Well from this womans point of view...I can tell you that if I am with someone I need to know that they are with me because they want to be with me and no one else and because they enjoy who I am as a person. I need someone who respects me, cares for me and only me ( not any other women ) Someone who will listen to me when I'm happy and keep listening when I am feeling down in the dumps. A woman likes to know you are listening to her and taking an interest in what is happening in her life even if you aren't particulary interested in what she is saying if only just to let her know you care. A women doesn't like to be made to feel insecure in a relationship take the time to let her know she is important in your life. It doesn't always have to be a constant "I love you" because words are just words but a little something to show her you do care. Don't let someone take you for granted or vise versa. Don't lose who you are just to be with someone you shouldn't be with either. The old saying treat someone how you would want to be treated is a very simple saying but so very true. Basically, just be yourself and if that isn't good enough for someone else then so be it. Be who you are and eventually someone will find you and love you just the way you are. Hang in there!!!!!!!

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Missy