The everyday decisions I leave up to my wife simply because when I do make a decision she very often will not agree. This is very general of course and it is not that I don't care but I don't care enough (where we eat, shop, etc etc) to get into a magor discussion. Overall we communicate just fine. the fact that your husband went to bed without telling you his plans is not very nice. However, I've got to admit that sometimes I forget to tell my wife of an appointment I made or something I heard. I remember everything I need to do at work and am very organized but when I get home, forget about it, I forget the garbage, etc etc. My self analysis is that work is important, could get fired for not doing it, home stuff is not as critical therefore there is no urgency. Either that or I'm just a dumbass male!

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