I agree...it can be a dangerous Pandora's box...however, as someone who has been the "wife," if all parties are comfortable with each other, not only the situation, and there is open communication, it can be an incredibly exciting experience. GusAspar's idea of a story is a good one to see how you both are ready for the next step. Good luck, no matter what happens.

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