perhaps your choices are leading you towards more restrained women. Lifetime habits are difficult to change. Why change them if they're not what you want then you make the change instead of pushing them to something they don't want.

I love sushi. Do I think everyone should? nope. Matter of fact Marlboro is deathly allergic to seafood. Is it so important that we share my love of sushi? nope. I just get it a lot less.


You might try a lingerie gift and tell her " I would love to see you in this" or " this is for you to unwrap now, I'll return the favor later" or some other cheese ball line with sincerity. Don't suggest leather and chains right out of the gate. try something tasteful and just a little more risque than her general taste.

If she's a white bra and granny panties girl try black lacey and bikini cut....

If the person is not what you need in a relationship then find someone who is.

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