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(26) Tickle each other. Laughter is an excellent aphrodisiac.
(27) Some people pay £1 a minute for phone sex, so why not give it to your lover for free. Phone sex worked for Samantha. But then everything works for Samantha. To lose your inhibitions and become fluent in lusty lingo read erotic novels to yourself out loud or try repeating the lyrics to raunchy tracks such as Madonna's Erotica.
(28) When giving an erotic massage, at least one hand should always remain on your lover's body.
(29) Drag sex out of the bedroom and have a bit of nookie in the kitchen, bathroom or even your garden shed.
(30) Ask for what you want in bed. In studies by Dr Patricia Love, a group of highly orgasmic women were compared with less fortunate females having trouble hitting the high notes. She discovered the only difference between the groups was the orgasmic women felt comfortable asking for their needs to be met.
(31) Light candles and get sensual indoors. Copy Samantha and go for a raunchy red glow in your bedroom. Save outdoor sex for the summer months. Do not blame us if you end up with what the girls would call a gherkin!
(32) To increase impact, as you are about to climax, take ten deep breaths and relax the muscles in your pelvic region.
(33) Seal your relationship with a loving kiss. A really good Frenchie is like an amphetamine rush. Feelgood dopamine starts rushing around the brain, testosterone level go up (in both sexes) and hormones are secreted which increase blood pressure, boost heart rate and - according to scientific bods - help us form loving relationships and may even increase our desire to stay faithful.
(34) Work those lips and tongue to avoid becoming a classic case of "clam mouth". Carrie can tell you that no girl should put up with a guy's tongue laying in your mouth like an immobile mollusc.
(35) To release sexual energy, have your partner stimulate your T-spot - the area about three inches directly below your navel.
(36) Barbara Phillips, editor of In The Buff magazine, recommends hair removal in the nether regions. "This heightens sensations and feels delightfully naughty," she explains. "You can volunteer to do it for each other and use an electric trimmer as a fun alternative to the dreaded barber's rash." Sex And The City devoted a whole episode to the subject, giving Brazil a whole new claim to fame.
(37) Slice fruit in half and trace the flesh across your partner's erogenous zones - then lick off the juices.
(38) Enhance your nudity by leaving on one item of clothing. For women, a pair of fishnet stocking will help focus a fella's attention, but men should not take this as an excuse to leave their socks on. An open crisp white shirt will have a better effect.
(39) To boost a flagging libido try homeopathic remedies such as graphite, lycopodium or pulsatilla.
(40) Eat garlic. Dr Sarah Brewer says: "Garlic is not such an obvious aphrodisiac, but it can boost sexual stamina by increasing circulation and reducing the hardening of the arteries, which is a common cause of impotence in men." No wonder the French are so randy.
(41) If nasty whiffs get right up your nose, dab edible scented oil in the areas you want to be kissed instead.
(42) To get what you want in bed without saying a word use the Remote Control Hand trick. Your partner places their hand on you, and you then place your hand over theirs and guide them across your body dictating the exact speeds and pressures you prefer.
(43) The other senses are heightened when sight is removed, so blindfold each other to deliver mind-blowing sensations.
(44) Emma Cox, founder of erotic emporium TakeMeToBed.co.uk, says: "We all dream of making love under a waterfall or in the sea so why not do it in your shower or bath. Try out the various pressures and ways of holding a showerhead over each other's contours."
(45) For a delicious feeling that you are doing something forbidden, try touching each other through your clothes or underwear.
(46) When getting tongue-tied with your lover, the Kama Sutra advises focusing on the upper lip on women and the lower lip on men as the nerves here are apparently directly linked to downstairs!
(47) Make a pact to try a new position every month. For inspiration keep a copy Sexual Positions, by Alex Comfort (Mitchell Beazley, £5.99), by your bed.
(48) Copy the Sex And The City girls and put tantric sex top of your New Year's resolutions. Remember to tell the boys that there is nothing wrong with taking things slowly.
(49) For a fabulously slippery session, smear each other in baby oil and then use your own naked bodies to massage each other.
(50) DO go to bed on an argument. The adrenaline from a row can boost passion levels between the sheets.
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