Personally I expect my fiancee and I to be COMPLETELY monogomous, but thinking about others can't be helped.( I am not condemning those who have open relationships, its just not us) I am curious though, when he says thinking of others is out, does he mean fantasizing you're with someone else while you are having sex with him, cause that is kind of understandable.

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