I would say that what he's doing is not that much different than going to a site like www.imlive.com. However, I do agree that knowing someone watches porn (honestly, who doesn't?) and actually having friends and family find out exactly what you watch or like in porn are two different things and should not be publicly announced. Now I know that sounds like I'm contradicting this site, however Pixies is a gray area and there is an adult understanding of anonymity. Also, if he has to lie about it I'd say in my very unprofessional opinion, he's ashamed of it. I could be wrong.

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