Well its not really a last hurrah type deal. Actually most of her girlfriends are either recently or in the process of a divorce. so they are all kinda in party mode to some degree. I think it was more a mix of jealousy because I'm stuck here and also I got oddly worried that a buncha dudes were in her house with 3 drunk chics. Its not for lack of trust of her...but more for lack of trust of them.

As for the toys...I kinda went along with hearing about the girlfriends messing around with it...honestly not really because I liked the idea but because they were her close friends and have been for years. Kinda different when ya hear about complete strangers (male or female) doing the same. I also suggest that she would probably not be the most comfortable if I decided to do something like that with a female friend (most of whom she doesn't know because of the long distance).

Either way...thanks for the insight. Things are still chill with us...so all is well