First! I need to know where her girlfriends shop.
j/k


We really have to define "insecurities". Paying attention only becomes an insecurity when suspicion over rides reality. It is very understandable how a long distance relationship can let the imagination twist facts when you are not able to share innocent fun moments together. She packed her friends and the guys off to the bar and called to tell you about the silly times. Doesn't sound like she is looking for anything more than fun adult times like we have here at Pixies joking and flirting with friends.

I have to ask if playing with your 'personal toy' bothered you when it was just her girlfriends doing it? Maybe you even enjoyed the idea. If so, it was only the male mammal psycho-chemical reaction when other guys came around. I think it would be a mistake for you to pee on them to mark them as yours alone though.

No one here knows her better than you and if your plans together are as stated, she's yours.

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