That actually makes all kinds of sense. Been dealing with #1, with ADHD, AS, petit mal epilepsy, & whatever else they can pull out of the book, & he's 26 now; still not worth the powder it would take to blow him away (I know, that sounds awful coming from a dad), the only consolation mrs zoid & I take away is that he's not quite as F'd up as his live-in GF (he at least has some self-awareness, if not the ability to self-improve).

Continue to vent, & share as much as you can stand right here. If we can't help, at least we're pretty much all sympathetic ears...

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