No, actually I would do whatever my girlfriend wanted in the bedroom, even if I wasn't enamored with the notion. Am I weak for saying this?, I don’t think so. When I was dating, lo those many years ago when I was just a little spud, I thought that if I really cared and trusted someone enough to maintain a sexual relationship with them then I was committed to making that relationship work. That means give and take. What impressed me in your previous postings that your B/F was pretty good at the take part and not so good at the giving part. It was from what you told us of his past actions that I based, hopefully falsely, my character assination of your B/F.
In the scheme of things you are young and I assume that your B/F is young also. At an early age Women seem to grab a handle on how to maintain a relationship better than men do. In general guys do some stupid stuff. That dosen’t make them necessarily bad guys. They just make stupid choices. (Just look at the car Insurance tables if you need proof of that) It would be foolish to assume that at this point in your lives you two have the same level of emotional maturity. I hope that I am wrong, For your sake I hope that this guy in “Mr. Perfect” or at least “Mr. Perfectly fine the way he is thank you very much”

My comments were rash and I am sorry for that. In no way did I mean to impune your integrity. I just think, once again based on only the information I have read, that this guy may not be the best match for you. You are an exceptionally beautiful woman and you seem sensitive and sincere. You deserve happiness. Don’t settle.

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