SB---Could it possibly be out of embarrassment?My wife always
orgasmed;wonderfully;from that;but doesn't want me to do it
very often;because it was known as a "dirty perversion"when we
were younger.In our youth;women didn't even admit to masturbating.After we were married;we had an honest talk;and it
turned out that she masturbated almost every night!Have an honest talk with him and tell him that it's what you desire!I can tell you;after 30+yrs of marriage;that if he cares about your feelings;he will at least;make an effort! Irish
P.S.Just my $.02.The gate swings both ways!

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)