I love to cyber!!! But I think it is all in the approach...
When I am in yahoo messanger and a guy says "you want to cyber"? I know he is not the one. I like a guy to be suttle. We start talking about who we are, or where we are from. Then slowly go into the more personal questions, like what you look like. Then get to the are you alone question....maybe, what are you wearing kind of thing. Not just"do you want to cyber" then saying I want to fuck you in the ass. That just doesnt do it for me. I like it smooth..... Then I can totally get off and enjoy the whole thing. We are out there zylo! Dont give up!