South~your comments were uncalled for.

Sarah, glad to hear you finally got him to at least give it a try again. Next time just tell him to get in there and lick everything, when something feels good...by all means tell him. Moan, shiver, scream, let him know somehow. Just my personal technique, I've always used a combo of fingers and tongue. Maybe suggest to him that he finger you while licking your clit. Then later in the session he can replace his fingers with his tongue. At least that way he'll have a heads up on where to go the next time. Good Luck hon!!!