CasperTG,

Well, I've never had fun with an enema, although I know that some people do.

An enema usually isn't necessary to clean things up beforehand, because there is seldom feces in the rectum. It does help to have a BM ahead of time, by an hour or so.

However, if one is going to use an enema beforehand, I would strongly reccomend caution in what type of enema. A lot of the commercial ones can be rather irritating to the lining of the rectum, and can make injury more likely. Also, a good many of them are designed to help encourage a BM to occur - precisely what you *don't* want at a time like that.

BTW, I thought I would mention the "good news". I got my SO of 11 years to finally, for the first time, fuck me in the ass tonight. He was amazed at how much either of us could or did enjoy it.

LizH