Remember when you first started having sex either with a girlfriend/boyfriend or your wife/husband? Remember doing it all the time? Notice how some of you have to remember it instead of thinking about that's how it is now?

Well, as the months and years go by, priorities and other commitments take over. I heard something funny on the radio the other day: The radio personality said he saw the Josh Hartnett movie "40 Nights." In the movie, apparently Harnett had to refrain from having sex with a girl for 40 days and nights. The radio guy said, "how difficult is that, its called marriage." Well all the married guys in the office started cracking up.

Anyways, as for ending the relationship ... it depends and partly because I separate the act of sex from the act of love. There is nothing loving (to me at least) about sloppy, sweaty, smelly, sticky fucking ... it's just that, sex.

I guess I would sum it up this way: If your S/O were in a car accident that left them paralyzed from the waist down, would you leave them because they couldn't have sex? I know I wouldn't. I didn't marry my wife because she's good at doing it doggie-style.

Oh well, there's my 2-cents.

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"Women, you can't live with them ... pass the beer nuts." - Norm Peterson (George Wednt) on Cheers

"Sometimes you just have to say, what the fuck." - Tom Cruise in Risky Business

"It tastes so good. Once it hits your lips." - Frank the Tank in Old School