I agree totally.
I'm going through it now. Thats is what got me lookin at this site.My wife was always very active until we had our 4th child.She was 37 when he was born. Afterwards she lost all her sex drive and it left me very fustrated because I was use to having sex at least once a day and twice on sundays. She complained of discomfort from the apesiodomy and being just unintrested. I could only get her to enjoy it a day or two after her period.

It allmost ruined our marraige. I was very close to being unfaithful for the first time. I had a beautiful 27 year old that was tempting me to leave her but I love my new son way to much to lose him so we are workin through it I hope.