I'll have to agree with the three S's here:
Steph
Scarlett
& Sharniqua

...cheating starts in the mind. If a person feels the need for gratification elsewhere (i.e. titty bars, cybersex, etc) there MAY be a need to re-assess the value of his (or her) relationship...

...and TALK ABOUT IT to his (or her) partner.


Lorelei,
Although I disagree somewhat with your opinion, please don't excuse yourself from this discussion -everyone's viewpoint matters...

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