I flirt all the time, its good humoured and not targeted at sexual relationships. I did not go outside my marriage when it was functional or even for a long time sfter that. When the affection and the sex stopped to a couple of times a year, I very occassionally visited a prostitute. It helped keep my emotions and physical needs in check. I did not do it to cheat but because I was not getting it where I should have been and wanted to.

there are different circumstances where there are shades of grey as well as black and white.

As a rule I dont cybersex these days unless I am particularly close to that person. That means that I feel love for that person. In the last 3 years that has applied to only 2 people.

I have close friendships with a few very attractive pixies ladies, all of whom are in a realtionship. I respect those relationships and support them. I am a romantic at heart and to know two people are in love is wonderful. I have turned down offers from some others and I think I have decent morals.

I have not adjusted to being single and am still coping with the ending of my last realtionship