try getting some anal sex infromation that explains how to do it safe and sanely. You will be suprised at all the stuff you should know before you "stuff"...also if your BF reads a bit about it there is a chance his interest might be peaked...if not lose this guy as you will be doomed to trying to "top him from the bottom". and if you are truly a sub your not going to be happy with a non-domin man

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