I suggest you read the two threads in the advice column on the whole "extra ppl in the marriage" thing. granted it's not exactly the same but you both need to be aware that there can be negative after effects.

http://www.pixies-place.com/forums/...ead.php?t=33551


and the other is "how to fix a cracked marriage"



what happens between consenting adults is all good, but you need to be aware of the possibility of consequences, take a good look at you life and your wife and decide if you really want to chance it. I know you said you've done it before but, things change ppl change, or maybe i'm just getting vanilla in my old age.

Kyttn

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