Yes, I usually ejaculate some time before I cum, usually more than once, and then cum 'properly' (the way I've always done I mean) without ejaculating, further into whatever it is I'm doing. Although when I ejaculate, I kind of cum as well It's just not the same feeling as when I cum at the end of doing whatever I'm doing. Whatever it is my body's doing, it feels good anyway, so I'm not complaining

I've never ejaculated with a guy, (not with one in the same room anyways ), only ever with self masturbation, and usually not with a toy, usually it has to be several fingers rubbing my clit and a couple of fingers from the other hand inside rubbing the front wall of my vagina for all it's worth, and then usually I can feel the warm squirts landing on my hand over and over. It was really cool the first time I figured it out! I only really figured I could ejaculate within the last few months. The information in the link Lilith gave is excellent and I read it hoping that I'm going to be able to relax enough when I'm next with a guy to let this happen I guess I've been finding out more about my body since being single, and that's a good thing Now I need a guy to play with