If I offered to bring her back something from the kitchen, I wouldn't be very dominant would I? That's why a scenario like that would never work with her and I. I don't feel comfortable lapsing into that role where I can tie her up and walk in and out of the room at my whim, taking pleasure from her elongated state of arousal interspersed with cooling down time.

That's why I need to try with someone that I know will take pleasure in seeing me free myself to enjoy the moment, wherever it takes us. Someone that I know will laugh with me when something goes totally wrong. lol

Wasn't there some urban legend, or some movie, about a guy that tied up his girlfriend and then had a heart attack, leaving her alone in the bed in a remote cabin somewhere? Maybe that's why she isn't that keen on the idea!

*shrugs*


/hands Teddy Bear a drink on the way back to the bedroom to untie the Mrs.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.